It is very close to the end of another year, and the time has come again for me to reflect on the past, to take stock - and to chart a new course for my future in human rights activism.
You may recall I started out as an activist for the human rights of the Pink Community, specifically with the SA Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (SA GLAAD) - an organization I am still serving on - and have since also become more involved with other causes attached to the cause of human rights.
Among these was a group called ECGLA.
Having been with the Eastern Cape Gay & Lesbian Association (ECGLA) since March 2009 until 2 weeks ago, I saw many changes in the organization and in the Committee. From the original 7 members who met every week at the Italian Job pub, until today - where the group has an extensive network of associates and affiliate organizations, and are even helping other community-based organizations take their first shaky steps.
I started my run with ECGLA in the position of "Advocacy and Mainstreaming" in March 2009, followed by election to Vice President in June. In the first crisis faced by ECGLA when ties between us and Leandie Buys were severed under less than amicable circumstances, I led ECGLA into an uncertain future as its newly elected President. In 2010, it was jointly decided by the Committee that the post of President should be altered to that of Director, in keeping with the trend followed by other non-profit organizations we had contact with.
ECGLA grew from strength to strength, forming relationships with a host of other Pink Community organizations, and even general social bodies, which have all helped it grow to where it is now. Through the last three years, we discovered what worked, and what didn't. At times we were groping in the dark while working towards specific goals. With ECGLA, I tasted both failure and success, with satisfactory events and also those not so satisfactory, facing problems such as apathy, disinterest and under-attendance from our own community.
Some of the highlights of my term in office with ECGLA which stand out for me include ECGLA's association with the PCRD, PE Bears, Lifeline PE, and Eloquor Knights, when ECGLA received NPO status, opened a bank account - and of course, the first two sponsorships from MAGI. The outreach program which has helped both the poor as well as LGBTI persons, numerous successful social events and presentations, the film festival and music trivia evening - and I will never forget our famous attempt to donate blood at The Bridge SANBS donation point! For me though, the NMB Pride of 2011, just about sums it all up! Success upon success - and for the benefit of the Pink Community.
From the very beginning, one of the goals of ECGLA was the formation of a Pride committee and the hosting of an annual Pride event in Port Elizabeth - a dream which remained on paper until this year - when instead of 100 people attending, almost 5000 people graced the very first Pride event in our Metro! I am immensely proud of the ECGLA, and of all the Committee members for the part each played in making this possible.
“Dead Man’s Hammer” by Christina Engela
“Obsidian crows frequently got run over because quite frankly, they were too damn lazy to get out of the way and anyway, they would just get up and walk off again afterwards. They were flightless birds, mainly because they were extremely hard bodied and far too heavy to fly – unless they fell off a cliff or were launched from a catapult. (Anything will fly if launched from a catapult – ask the Navy.)
Deanna was just another third rate colony in the Terran Empire – and it was pretty much as boring a lump of rock as could be expected. That is, until Gary Beck, aka Beck the Badfeller ran over an obsidian crow with his Jeepo and didn’t have a spare tire. (Things pretty much went down hill from there.)
There was an assassin in town now and she had a score to settle. She was pretty, but as most poets will tell you, beauty can be deceiving. The same poets, who would write about Helen of Troy as the face that launched a thousand ships, would write about Villainessa Tittle as the bitch that sank them. As an assassin, she was the worst kind; this meant that she took pride in her work, enjoyed what she did for a living – and above all, that she was bloody good at it. And this time unfortunately, it was absolutely 100 percent personal.”
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Each of us on the Committee sacrificed - time, effort, talent - and even personal resources such as finances, venues, goods and other contributions to our common cause of equality and human rights for all. At times we and our predecessors opened our homes and even businesses to the presence of ECGLA, and to me all of this is a testimonial to their commitment to the community of which we are a part.
Since 2009, ECGLA has worked for the benefit of the Pink Community in the fields of counseling, outreach, community work, advocacy, health and well-being - and I am very proud to have been associated with the group through all of this, as its Director.
This is the end of yet another year, time to reflect on the past - to evaluate my part in it, and also to consider the future. I was the last remaining of the original members of the ECGLA Committee, and for some while felt that it was time for me to take my leave of the ECGLA and the NMB Pride Committee and to move on.
I no longer felt that I could continue to give all my attention to the ECGLA, as I have numerous interests vested in different community organizations. It has to be said that though I have played the role of Director these past three years, I am far more an activist than an administrator. In retrospect, though I never joined the ECGLA committee to become its leader, I have absolutely no regrets about the time and effort I invested in it. I just needed to cut back on my diverse activities in order to regain my focus as an activist for human rights.
I was saddened by this decision, and it may seem to some to have been rather sudden - but I have been mulling over this for several months already. Part of the reason I held back was due to timing - I did not wish to leave ECGLA in the lurch in the middle of critical arrangements, or during critical periods where I could still provide a sense of stability and direction, and my departure could have precipitated failure and the potential collapse of the organization. I think that this was the right time for me to step down as Director of ECGLA, and to end my involvement in the group on a high note.
I feel that at this point, ECGLA is a strong organization now, with support from the community, and its name has now been made and held high with Pride, and ECGLA now has the attention of other Pink Community associations and community bodies. There is a strong Committee, and things are truly happening. It is time for me to pass on the torch.
Of course, I realize that I am just one who has contributed to the success of the ECGLA and our achievements over the past three years, and I can in no way accept credit by myself for these achievements. I feel it has all been a team effort, and I would like very much to publicly express my heartfelt thanks and appreciation to each and every one of you for your cooperation, friendship and contribution towards the achievement of our group success. I wish my successor, David Hessey - in the new position of Chairperson, and ECGLA - all the very best for the future.
What does the future hold for me? Those of you who know me, know that the cause of equality, freedom and democracy lies very close to my heart - and not just for the Pink Community, but for ALL. To this end, I am charting a new course for my activism career, through some lonely and isolated waters. But hey, life is an adventure, and I intend to enjoy the ride.